Friday, June 25, 2010

Secrets to Wealth Creation Strategies

Are you looking for wealth creation strategies that will change your life? If you are then you are not alone. Most people are always looking for a new way or a faster way to improve their financial situation.

It is safe to say that most people feel boggled down with the pressures of life and all its demand. And would rather have a much simpler life. But they have taken on a lot of financial obligations that just does not afford them an easier simpler life.

Most have found themselves living from paycheck to paycheck and always in a constant fear that what will happen if they should lose their jobs. While most of the economy is struggling there are those who are not being bothered by financial troubles.

You desire to be one of those people. The kind that never have financial worries but live life as it was meant to live with passion and purpose.

If you desire to have that kind of lifestyle first understand that it is possible for you. Not because you might have started late and seem to be at the back of the line in understand how to have wealth creation strategies, you have not totally missed the bus.

There are always new and innovative ways to create wealth if you are just open to allow them to teach you.
The key to any wealth creation strategy is that you must begin with the mindset that you will follow through. The main reason why so many people seem to seek wealth and wealth seem to elude them is that they do not follow through.

If you start something that promises you a pot of gold at the end, don't look at it and say it will not work and don't try. Or you might even give it a go and try and then meet your first disappointment and quit. You must be willing to try and keep trying. Life is like a numbers game, the more you try and fail, the greater your chances of succeeding.

So what do you want to do in life to succeed? Yes, fail and fail fast and quick. The best way to having wealth creation strategies is that you must be willing to fail. And then you must be willing to believing in yourself that you will make it, no matter what.

But this is the hardest of them all because though you want success, it seems as if it's always eluding you.

How to Build Healthy Friendships in 10 Easy Steps

Do you have healthy friendships? How is your relationship with your friends?

Building healthy relationships and friendships is an art that many people do not know about. Many people do not know how to deal with others and hence, fail to make close friends and their relationships with others deteriorate.

To respect people's emotions and opinions and to show them that you really care about them is the key to building healthy friendships and to reaching people's hearts. When you show people that you appreciate them, you build trust and respect with them.

Studies show that people who are selfish and greedy, don't get to make many close relationships and friendships since the majority of people do not like to have friends who are selfish or who try to exploit others to get what they want.

Your relationships with people is an art that you have to keep working on, so you can build healthy friendships with your colleagues, acquaintances, and friends.

To build healthy friendships, follow the guidelines below:

1. Show people that you care about them.
2. Be supportive.
3. Be altruistic.
4. Express how you feel about people in a sincere way.
5. Treat people as you like to be treated.
6. Listen to your friends when they need someone to talk to.
7. Offer constructive criticism and stay away from non-constructive criticism.
8. Be forgiving.
9. Spend time together.
10. Laugh with each other.

Always remember what Ralph Emerson said, "The only way to have a friend is to be one

Wednesday, June 23, 2010

When the World Cup is on Might This Not Be a Good Time to Make Wise Life Choices?

Patrick Vieria, the football player, or soccer player, was born in Senegal in West Africa but was a French citizen as well. When it came to playing in the World Cup, Patrick had to choose which nation he would represent and it was back in 1997 that he made his choice and opted for France against the Netherlands.

Life presents us with choices all the time, and sometimes these choices are not all that easy to make. We can be faced at times with difficult choices.

There is one choice which Jesus Christ laid before men and it is one we cannot avoid or escape. No man can serve two masters. You cannot serve God and Money! If you want to check out these true and prophetic words of Jesus you will find them in Matthew Chapter 6. Note too that making the right choice does away with hating!

That was a passage I had to memorise at Primary School in Perth well over fifty years ago. These were in the days when teachers had us memorising the Word of God. We have wandered far away from that.

These teachers were giving us a basic grounding in the fundamentals and they may not even have realised they were doing such a vitally important task.

Many have made the bad choice and are serving money and money is a bad master. Why do people make bad choices and choose to serve bad masters? That has baffled me for years.

Jesus also taught that in order to serve Almighty God, we have to deny ourselves and what we might want and desire, and give and surrender our lives to Him for His leading and guidance and direction.

He will never mislead and he will never guide anyone to go astray.

If we choose to serve ourselves and have total control over our own lives, and do whatever we please whenever, that can be the recipe for disaster.

When we choose to serve God and when we seek to let Jesus lead and us and direct us that can result in a totally different type of live where we live under the care and compassion and blessing of God.

Such choices affect us in so many ways. People do not realise what they are missing when they turn their back upon God and His Word.

Going back to the opening paragraph it would be like Patrick Vieira trying to play for Senegal and France in the same World Cup tournament. It is not feasible and it is not possible.

Choose this day whom you are going to serve. Choose wisely. Choose in such a way that the consequences will be the reward and blessings of Almighty God upon your life and even the life of your family.

Jerry Saliu

Making Miracles!

I love my work! Having the opportunity to share with you some amazing life lessons every week brings excitement and honor that I don't take lightly. As I sit down to write this article, I'm overwhelmed with joy, because this story is truly the making of miracles.

I received a phone call from a lady looking for assistance in making changes in her life. She had very little understanding as to how I may help her, but she felt she needed to start somewhere. When someone has the awareness to truly want something better and they reach out to receive, life responds.

This initial phone conversation, revealed how entirely confused she truly was. Her expression was repeated many times, as she stated, "I don't know what I want." She is 27 years old and spent every single one of those years focused on what everyone else wanted.

Still living with her parents, her life was encompassed by their needs. Nearly every dollar she made at her extremely humble job, working at a sandwich shop went to assist her younger brother in getting through school. She was determined not to let him fail as she felt her entire family had.

Being raised by a mother and father that would never allow any type of success or advancement kept her reluctant to wanting anything for her own life. "I don't know what I want and I can't even make decisions for myself," she repeated and adamantly confessed.

During our first session, I realized how desperate her desire was, when she said, "Sometimes I go without eating so my mom can eat." She clearly wanted something better, and this is where every miracle starts.

Through coaching processes and strategies for greater awareness, she left our first meeting with hope, direction and a spark of clarity as to what she wanted for her life. For the very first time she felt there was a way out and she was determined to remain centered in only what would support her in that reality.

It's been only a month. And, in our last session she revealed her amazing growth. The first thing she said was, "I am out of here!" I was on the edge of my seat as she explained.

Her brother had received great news. He was accepted, and would be leaving for medical school! But, that wasn't her destination. The larger part of the story was the response from her parents. Their negative, martyr approach had troubled her so deeply that she finally put her foot down.

She knew following her brother wasn't what she wanted, but after 27 years of being stifled by her parents, they had taken it too far and she was not going to let it continue. With her bags in hand she found herself on the doorstep of a friend. This was her first encounter with true freedom.

She was free from the entanglement of guilt, poverty and the neglect she'd lived for so long. Anytime you stand for what you know is right and best for your life, you release yourself from bondage. Immediately miracles can take place and they did.

Within two days, and the help of a friend she had a job offer out of state, which is what she wanted. This would be the best job she's ever had, making the most money she's ever made and doing what she loves to do. She leaves the beginning of July.

The thrill she is experiencing will remain long enough for her to gain further confidence. The lessons and techniques I taught her will allow her to continue to reach even further and stay centered in happiness and strength. I asked her what she had learned about herself and for the very first time in her life she was able to say, "I know what I want and I know I can do it!"

The miracle, she made through her commitment to herself. Her story so far is thrilling. However, my excitement really stems from knowing this is only the first miracle for her and now her life will never be the same.

This is such a beautiful illustration of what life should look like for each of us on a daily basis. If you want to make miracles you must first expect miraculous results and then stand for what it is you want. Even if you're not yet clear what it is you do want, taking a stand to deny any engagement of what you don't want is the freedom necessary to allow its clarity to come forth.

Don't just believe in miracles, expect them! Thank you for allowing me the opportunity to share this story with you!

Want to Eliminate the Pain of Not Having Enough Money?

Unless your last name is Rockefeller, Kennedy or Trump, you've most likely faced this fact of life. What is it? Along with death and taxes, the other fact of life most of us have faced is pain of not having enough money.

Money is not everything, but not having enough to at least afford the necessities of life can cause embarrassment, stress and even pain. In fact, the number one cause of divorce year after year, in good times or recession is money. Not having enough money beats out growing apart, physical abuse and even infidelity as the number one reason for marriage break ups.

But unfortunately marriage is not the only area not having enough money puts strain on. You name it, a business, a single life, your love life you name it. But life is too short to allow the pain of not having enough money drain happiness from it.

Fortunately, I've discovered the T.A.G principle to eliminate the pain of not having enough money. Use it while your working to make things better, and based on statistics they do get better. I'll explain what the T.A.G principle shortly.

Remember the key to overcoming the pain of not having enough money depends on one factor. What is it? I'm glad you asked. It's how successful you are at keeping your family, marriage, business or yourself together until your circumstances get better.

Applying the T.A.G principle will help you overcome the pain of not having enough money until things turn around. In fact, the faster you apply these principles the faster your circumstances will turn around. On the other hand, ignoring these T.A.G principle will make your obstacles seem higher, your problems deeper and your difficulties last longer.

Based on research not using the T.A. G principle is the number one cause of unhappy rich people. Show me an unhappy rich person and I'll show you the lack of applying T.A.G principles. Applying the T.A.G principle will make your life seem richer, and not applying the T.AG principle will make your life seem poorer. That's how powerful this principle is.

Here's the powerful T.A.G principle that will instantly make your life richer. Read, apply it and then share it with someone you care about. The T.A.G principle stands for Thankfulness, Appreciation and Gratitude. These are the powerful trinity if practiced daily will make your life richer and if ignored will make it poorer. Let's look at them in more detail.

1.Thankfulness - is your ability to notice and acknowledge the little things in life that contributes to your benefit. Often the number one way most people trip over this principle is waiting until something major happens to them that is good.

The key is getting into the habit of noticing and acknowledging the little things in life. For example, being thankful for being able to hear a chirping bird, to see a glowing sunset or to smell fresh bread baking or to swallow food without pain. Can you be thankful.

2. Appreciation - is the ability to be satisfied with what you have and the ability to make the most of it. This doesn't mean you're not striving to improve your condition or circumstances. But it's refusing to wait until something happens or someone does something before you experience happiness.

It would shock you how many people refuse and resist being happy until some future event happens. Practicing appreciation for what you have now will help you achieve more to appreciate in the future, try it.

3. Gratitude - is an attitude When you maintain an attitude of gratitude you can't help but overcome or literally come up over any difficulties you face. Lack of self-esteem is the number one psychological problem in America. This comes from the inability or refusal to be grateful. For example, the stereotypical spoiled rich child, born with the silver spoon in their mouths.

Yet they suffer the most from self-esteem problems. Often this is traced to the inability to be grateful. The good news is you don't have to be rich to be grateful, it doesn't cost anything. That means it's benefits can be enjoyed by anyone who has the courage to use it.

These are the 3 principles that make up the T.A.G system use it to make your life richer and more rewarding. Please don't make the mistake of waiting for some future to happen before you apply them to your life. Start now where you stand and you'll be thankful, appreciative and grateful you did.

Friday, June 18, 2010

How to Get Him in 3 Moves - Checkmate!

Having a man in your life is as exciting as you would want it to be because there are many things that you would be able to feel whenever you are in a relationship. May it be done seriously or not but the fact that you were able to bait another man in your life means that you have this wonderful charm which will make a man say never or will not turn you down. But what are the things that you should do if you are the kind of woman that does not have the "APPEAL" to men. How are you going to start seducing them in your own way?

First of all, being a woman could already give us a lot of opportunity to have the man that we wanted because we are their opposite sex. We are not just some homosexuals that is trying too hard to get their attention. In short, being a female means that we already have the plus points for being able to seduce a man. Do not lose the hope that you could never have a man of your own because each one of us has its own soul mate and partner. The best thing to do is to find for it thoroughly and will keep it forever.

What are the things that you should exert effort with and what ways are going to follow in order to make it successful? What are the steps that you are going to follow in order to seduce a man? Here are some steps which you could follow in order to succeed in your plans:

Be ready to flirt. It could be the most conventional way of having your man but this could truly help you out in winning your man because they could easily fall for the seduction stage. It may sound so novice but the reality is that it is still effective up to now and there are still many people that uses this strategy in order to win the person that they like. This is the easiest way to make them feel that you are interested with them. But remember: never take it too far than usual. You just flirt but not too much because it might become a turn off.

Give him attention. If you flirt, it is not 100% guaranteed that you have already the man that you liked. It may trigger many things so if you flirt follow up with giving him attention or giving concern so that he would feel loved and important. There are many things that you should know about a man and his reactions towards your deeds to him but be careful that you would not make him step backwards from you.

Let him know. If you have already done the two steps that I have suggested you to do, you have to let him know now what you feel for him and that you do not want it to end with friendship. Besides, if he really does not like you then you would not be able to pass up even the first stage, right? If you were able to go to the next level then that means that he is merely interested with you and it would be good if you are practical enough to tell him what your intentions are.